Freedom starts when and where you take love out of the equation...
It's the moment where physical relations becomes 'just sex', free of any kind of pressure. An activity or a need that gets satisfied. No guilt. Fun. Normal.
It's the moment when all expectations in a relationship disappear. No expectation, no suffering. And though absence of suffering does not necessarily mean pleasure it is still much better the the torment caused by 'love'. You start behaving like a person, not a madman...
Just imagine. No jealousy. No frustration. No false hopes. You just get what you get and you're more than happy with that because there were no plans, no feelings involved. When they decide to go there's no wallowing. And you might even be able to remain friends and keep in touch instead of avoiding each other for the rest of your lives. None of you will feel let down, tricked or disappointed. Fair trade.
And last but not least is good for yourself. We're raised with this stupid idea that we need love. That we need to love and, most especially, that we need to be loved. Thus we suffer in its absence, we develop phobias and all sorts of disorders which only keep the shrinks happy. Or we seek it permanently, make a big fuzz when we realize that we weren't or aren't loved. The same or as much or at all. And that fucks up our world. We end up thinking we're not good enough or unlucky to meet only creeps and/or bitches. We end up feeling betrayed by others and displeased with ourselves. But that's a false problem... With a simple solution.
In order to prove how ridicule football is someone suggested to remove the ball from the picture. You'll end up having 22 idiots running around, chaotically, on a green field. Our love centered lives, this constant 'search' is that football game.
Remove 'love' from your mind, vocabulary and actions and you shall be free! Not only free, but happy! Enjoying any opportunity, developing real relationships which have a chance to survive the test of time. Take a step out of this socially constructed border, better said limitation, and you shall finally experience life...
I'm doing it and i'm finally able to look forward to the future, liberated... I'm finally starting to find peace of mind.
It's the moment where physical relations becomes 'just sex', free of any kind of pressure. An activity or a need that gets satisfied. No guilt. Fun. Normal.
It's the moment when all expectations in a relationship disappear. No expectation, no suffering. And though absence of suffering does not necessarily mean pleasure it is still much better the the torment caused by 'love'. You start behaving like a person, not a madman...
Just imagine. No jealousy. No frustration. No false hopes. You just get what you get and you're more than happy with that because there were no plans, no feelings involved. When they decide to go there's no wallowing. And you might even be able to remain friends and keep in touch instead of avoiding each other for the rest of your lives. None of you will feel let down, tricked or disappointed. Fair trade.
And last but not least is good for yourself. We're raised with this stupid idea that we need love. That we need to love and, most especially, that we need to be loved. Thus we suffer in its absence, we develop phobias and all sorts of disorders which only keep the shrinks happy. Or we seek it permanently, make a big fuzz when we realize that we weren't or aren't loved. The same or as much or at all. And that fucks up our world. We end up thinking we're not good enough or unlucky to meet only creeps and/or bitches. We end up feeling betrayed by others and displeased with ourselves. But that's a false problem... With a simple solution.
In order to prove how ridicule football is someone suggested to remove the ball from the picture. You'll end up having 22 idiots running around, chaotically, on a green field. Our love centered lives, this constant 'search' is that football game.
Remove 'love' from your mind, vocabulary and actions and you shall be free! Not only free, but happy! Enjoying any opportunity, developing real relationships which have a chance to survive the test of time. Take a step out of this socially constructed border, better said limitation, and you shall finally experience life...
I'm doing it and i'm finally able to look forward to the future, liberated... I'm finally starting to find peace of mind.
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